Weekday Angel Fix ~ Messenger Of Thought

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Hope all of you have had a wonderful weekend. As guided, most of you may have worked on the relationships and self-limiting philosophies. You healed them and as a result, Messenger Of Thought rewards you with exciting new Projects and developments.

Every New Project naturally means new paths of research and at an initial stage you may feel a sense of overwhelming. You would get your data from lots of sources news, media, Social media internet and new people who enter into your life as a result.

This card asks you to be “Organised” so that you can compile this data and present it in a relevant manner wherever required.

If you are required to deliver the information orally do it tactfully and diplomatically. A truth rashly laid out brings down all the hard work that you do. Use lots of positive words to present your facts even if they are a little pointed…and need an assertive stand-point.

Review your documents, notes or other paper work carefully. If you are to sign it or present it, careful review and thorough checking is recommended.

Be ready for changes or delays in plans as new facts surface. Be patient and organised.

This week promises lots of learning for you and sharing of information and knowledge. Do have an organised and a diplomatic week where you learn and share with like-minded people.

Take charge of your lovely life.

  Sonnal Pardiwala,

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Weekend Angel Fix…Love & Introspection In The Air!

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Today, Angels bring in double messages…for those who are in a relationship and also for those who are in all probability, single.

CHEMISTRY

Some of you have been dating for a while or just maybe sending those silent messages to each other. Some who are wondering if there is any chance to take that to another level.

This card brings in good news that there is crackling and simmering feelings that can be and should be explored. The possibility of a Romance unfolding is very, very, very strong. Even those relationships, where a certain time has elapsed and the passion has toned down, this weekend asks you to reignite those sparks.

Weekends are the best times to calm down your flurried activities and spend time maybe talking “sweet nothings” or simply spending some truly private time getting to know each other anew.

Just sit in each other’s presence and take time to compliment, uplift and validate the other. It will be worth every effort that is made. The newbies; book your bouquets and send those love cards and gifts for the other. Why wait for Valentine’s to express your Admiration? This weekend is as good as any…Enjoy the warmth and love!

FREE YOURSELF

Okay! So all those pouting and sulking for they have no romantic interest in their life angels send you messages too. The Unicorn seems to be feeling entrapped…however, look closely, the trap is a false one. The Unicorn can easily jump over and terminate the self-imposed limitation.

 Similarly so often we keep ourselves stagnant due to our thoughts of what is not possible. This weekend do introspect as to what it is that is holding you back. Most often it is:

“I am no good!” (Why judge yourself so harshly?)

“No one will care for what I have to say!” (At least try! What you gotta loose?)

“It is very late now to try!” (The time trap is illusionary…you must keep trying till you can!)

Look within and find your traps and counsel yourself!

This weekend asks us to reach out and explore the relationships we have been having around at the same time spring cleaning cobwebs from our minds and heart so that when we come to the new week, we are energetic and ready to face and conquer the world.

                                                                                           Sonnal Pardiwala,

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Weekday Angel Fix: Ready, Set, Go…

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Weekday Angel Fix comes with a strong flavor for the week. It commands and urges in a friendly way to absolutely don your metaphorical vehicle and just zoom towards your goals.

You have been working or resting or preparing the Background work for a certain outcome. You have probably applied for a certain job and got a call for interview…you have applied for a bank loan and have been granted the amount…you have been thinking of starting a new venture…

Now is the perfect time to embrace your heart’s desire. A new wave of energy urges you to jet set with full speed towards all that you wish to do.

You may not understand everything that is unfolding but trust the wisdom of the Higher Crew and simply get on your steam and move…

No confusions…no hesitations…no procrastination…Now is the time to implement that thing that you so deeply wanted to! All your Angelic helpers are giving you a thumbs-up to get going. Be a go-getter. This week calls for a busy action packed schedule and happy energy forward.

If you have been wanting to start something new or add something to your skill or attend a workshop, do not hesitate and just go for it.  

View the cheerful mermaid on the dolphin being propelled forth. 

May all of you have a delightful and a goal oriented week!

                                                     Sonnal Pardiwala,

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Waaris 2016…When Will The Society Transform Itself?

“Will you forgive me for not giving you a son???”

Loud sobs of my mother woke me up that night in our one room tenement. She was being consoled by my dad silently who was equally broken with the lost battle with nature. They were unaware that I, their elder daughter, was taking it all in with an angry, sad surprise. I dare not wake up and ask the thousands of questions teeming in my mind. So I lay there picking up what I could of the conversations racked in sobs of regret and shame.

My mom had been emotionally pushed into pregnancies…she delivered three daughters and was again pushed by her own Mother to have a fourth Child…Male child you see was needed to carry the name of the father further!!! In the bargain they had risked her life and it had led to a still born male child at the fifth month…and doctors had strictly warned against any more such ordeals for her…

My Mom was apologizing for no longer able to hold out hope for a male child as well as living with the endless taunts of people, of having only  girls …

Back then I could not do much or even console my parents. This was never ever discussed openly ever again in my family. It just so happened that I eavesdropped…

A sense of helplessness did envelop me and I grew up feeling I have to prove it always to my folks that I am successful despite my gender…! And that my parents do not need a male child to further add to their happiness…How much I am successful in that goal? I do not know…

But when I see the Promos of the Show to be Aired on “ AndTv”. All the emotional turmoil, all the unshed tears and unoffered words of solace to my crying mom surface and then I have to watch the Show …For I completely understand what may drive a mother who lives in the interior part of Punjab to lie to the family about a gender of the child.

For all the success, education and ambition that we girls grew up with and created a happy and proud existence, I still remember the sad delight and satisfaction with which my mom held my child who was a male child. She uttered “God fulfilled my wish after so many years!”

Why do I want to watch the show?

Questions, I have in mind!

The plot of the show or the premise interests me much. It raises so many questions in my mind about the dire need to declare a female child male. What would transpire for a mother too put a child in such a dilemma and raise that child to face such an identity crisis for truth will someday catch up?

I also want to know as to how a mother may be so resourceful that she will manage to hide the child’s gender whilst being surrounded by dozens of inquisitive ladies all around willing to pick up the child, give the child some much needed oil massage 

Would the child be never left behind unattended without a cloth on? Would not some unsuspecting lady someday try to change the crying baby for it has wet the clothes and is not promptly having the mother available??? Would the child not drag without pants as is usual in rural areas?

Our government did spend considerable amounts in explaining family planning and who actually controls the formation of a child’s gender over the years we have became independent? Like this story seems to be set in contemporary times…do they honestly still blame the woman for not bearing a male child? Whatever happened to the Y Chromosome Theory??? And what happened to Chotta Parivar Sukhi Parivaar? Every state board textbook is replete with these themes…do they not send their children to school??? 

Scale & Magnitude.

The first week  Episodes itself gives a peek of rural Punjab, colorful bejewelled ladies and family feuds, spawning wide fields and fantastic actors playing the lead characters. 

Somebody has decided to truly use the picturesque wooing with the audience. We were awfully bored with made up sets of bedroom and corporate offices in daily soaps. This comes as a refreshing whiff for they truly have taken us outdoors showing kabbadi matches and feuding scenes right in the middle of the field. 

The fire in the barn yard and highly emotional dramas hold the interest even though a certain predictability does stay in all the scenes that unfold. Now someone great did say there is nothing new in the world but each thing can have its own flavor and this week did have a rural earthy dollop of histrionics that it kept me coming back at seven in the evening, even though I had things to attend. Even Ad Breaks could not deter my interest levels.

What I liked so far…or who for that matter???

I am not using their professional names, rather,, their character as that is the aim of the show…to give us a low down of each character and weave us in their ups and downs and strength and weakness.

Amba Pawania

The beautiful and docile wife who is willing to help and not argue back when elders are venting out at her for not giving a son so far and having two daughters. She is resigned to the fate of bearing two daughters but stunningly complements the peace loving husband. She shows perfect understanding of her husband’s plea for peace and supports him immensely. 

She jauntily reprimands her brother-in- law and at the same time is ready with a slap to stop him from rash actions. The episodes, where she urges her Mother in law to stop her sons from going into danger, bring out her full element. She is superb in her panic driven pleas to each family member to avoid disasters and regrets and stop the warring.

What steals the show for me is the Monday episode when they bring her “Warrior Dead”. She is epitome in her uninhibitory anger mixed with tears. Her ire is full force on her mother-in-law for being so foolhardy…accusing her of destroying her …you have to see it! 

The entire episode belongs to Amba for bringing alive the agony of a woman who lost everything to others' foolish and stubborn ambitions…Her hysterics have to be applauded. An actor has to give herself completely to immerse fully and bring forth the anguish. From resplendent beauty she silently transforms into a grieving widow…

Charan Pawania

A Shah to his tribe …he is a peace lover. He believes in working hard and distributing his wealth amongst all. He even overlooks her brother who seems to be contributing less. He is aware of family feuds and bitterness but believes peace is the answer to dissolving long standing angst and not ill mouthing the foe or harassing. 

He is so innocent that he is unaware of the anti-social activities his brother is conducting or for that matter the lack and helplessness of law and order situation in his locale. Now, generally a seasoned and a senior Shah would be aware of a lot of things going on in his area. He seems to have gone on to rule the roost with his eyes closed or wearing rose tinted "All is good and All ends well" , adage even though daily he faces situations with people having evil intents including his own mother and brother and opponents too. Very unbelievable. 

When his family is held ransom and he is asked to wear his wife’s jewelry, he complies…at the same time, hits out when his wife’s honor is challenged…his barn yard is in flames and yet he stops his brother from doing anything foolhardy. Too mild to be a leader…and pity his character was only a week-long. 

Would have loved to see how he implements his peace-first approach to resolve any issue therein in his locale…in any case this approach did terminate his life…Maybe the feud could have been taken a little longer to unfold in all its aspects. The makers seem to be in a hurry to get to the real premise of the show and it all looked a tad bit hurried…little more...maybe a week or two… could have created a proper background for the audience to understand what happened and why it did the way it did?

Bebe

Typical matriarch-who carries bitterness in her Bosom…has a vitriolic tongue that knows how to throw a barb to destroy a heart into splinters. She wants revenge and blood of the foe. She thinks it is cowardice to not get an eye for an eye…so when Lala Bajwa wishes her on Baisakhi she minces no words and expresses that nothing has changed or is likely to…

Women who have lost and undergone suffering may seek revenge but will hold tight what remains...I would like to see that glimmer of wisdom in her…Alas! so far she seems to be an obstinate child bent on manifesting a tunnel vision and seeks salvation through blood. Her fury is a little misplaced at her son who is actually talking sense...well guess she will continue her matriarchal ways and create hindrances in the general scheme of things...

Jagan Pawania

He is introduced with flexing Muscles and well philandering with another damsel of the village though he has a wife and a son…hot-headed and embittered by family’s borrowed feud, he feels the only virile thing to do is break bones and chop heads. I did see a very cute camaraderie with his purjaiji in the jeep where he drives her to his elder brother…I saw a protective instinct in him when he asks over the mobile “unhone purjaiji ko haat toh nahi lagaya na?”

They could have built this camaraderie into something really lovely and sweet. 

Again…sigh...the plot has moved on to volatile drama to ever afford a lighter Bhabhi-Devar moment any more…He respects his purjaiji and of all people, she is able to stop him in the aflame barnyard from his hot-headed pursuit of revenge. She does calm him down…on a lighter note he is the only Handsome Dude worth drooling…and staring at…

Please give him a little more to flex…his muscles, as well as histrionics, if he has it...we want to see it…!!! For his onscreen wife’s only role is to jab the fact that she has a son and Amba has none; over done and insensitive…maybe that is the effect makers want to create…we will see if she develops into a typical scheme hatching vamp of usual daily soaps…whose only ambition would be to uncover the gender of the child once she suspects it to be declared otherwise…

Rest all, cast is pretty OK…let's say, Lalaji Bajwa, who mutually shares the philosophy of peace with Charan and often stops situation getting outta hand. He is our philosophical background subtitle enumerating value of peace...or what happens when a man dies…a mother loses a son…a wife her reason to happiness and adorning herself…her relations with colors ends there…she is no longer allowed to dress up in beautiful shades of clothing and is denied jewellery too…well…wonder why that philosophy was never borrowed by his ever shaking mostly drunk and a little cartoonish junior Bajwa who goes on to wreak havoc…without any remorse on his part for his deeds.

Hmm, however it still is interesting to go back at seven on AndTv . The direction is superb and tight. Nowhere are the artists going too out of hand. As I said earlier, predictable it is, but it still holds the viewer. 

The responsibility of the makers is to now create tight plots and premises...keep the story going forward…build characters and their nuances …create lovely moments when they see the camaraderie developing …they do have few gems up their lot…

Good luck for the Show…! If it still holds my resonance I will continue giving my honest reviews of the show.

                                                                -By Sonnal Pardiwala

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Weekend Angel Fix :Getting To Know Each Other

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Friday energy always beckons to all to work on the inner you. Your Higher crew is always wanting all to be happy and deal with each issue harmoniously. They ask always to create a Win-Win  Situation for everyone.

The Card for the weekend says “Getting To Know Each Other” ( From Romance Angels Deck by Doreen Virtue).

It urges all of us to spend time working on the Most important aspect of us...our Relationships!!!

It speaks to each one of us encouraging us to be honest with our innermost feelings. The more you let an issue fester or push it under the rug the more it will create wide chasms .

For those who have just begun a relationship , spend time together talking about each other…Family patterns of behavior, anxieties, idiosyncrasies. The more one gives a peek of self the deeper the bond becomes.

For those who have been formally Engaged, it is time for the respective near and dear ones to get together and get to know each other. A dinner get together is a wonderful idea.

For some of you who have been having a long term relationship , naturally this card talks of encouraging honest talks about things that did not sit well with us…things we want to change about the relationship and our partner or key figures like behavior of a sibling or a parent.

Sometimes we cannot do it all alone and it is alright to take additional help either of a professional Counselor or a wise Elder whom you can trust.

To summarize…

Spend time with loved ones...

Talk about inner desires, hopes, fears and ambitions...

Do not procrastinate talking about what really matters...

Take help if needed of a wiser agency that you can trust...

Have a lovely weekend. May all of you unburden from your bosom things that weigh heavy and come out refreshed and rejuvenated this weekend. 

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Weekday Angel Fix: Consult An Expert!

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So we have all had a fabulous weekend and sort of jostled the Monday blues and are in full throttle with all the things that need to be done. We often find ourselves barraged by so many issues.

Our angels send us a strong message that this is not the period to battle it out all alone. We often go round and round struggling with issues all by ourselves and create a shroud of anxiety and confusion for self.

Here is the simple advice and it will make you efficient.

Go to the concerned person in your relevant field who you deem to be an expert. This person has the required know how and may resolve the issue at hand briskly and you will be left wondering as to why did you simply prolong the matter?

The expert will give you a plan of action that will begin the resolution process.

So, if you are a student and are worried about what career path to choose, go to a career counsellor, attend a career seminar and gather more information.

If you are going through a medical issue worrying and fretting over the symptoms will get you no-where. Leave the chaos and ask for help. The medical personnel will promptly put many of your thoughts to rest and prescribe you medication that puts you on path of recovery and renewed energy.

This is applicable to any area of your life. So much help is available…why battle it out all alone?

If a beautician can fix it why not pamper yourself?

If a teacher can teach you things why not go to them?

If a legal matter looms on your head, why not go to a lawyer?

If you need a loan, well go to the bank…speaking to your neighbour or friend is hardly going to create funds!

If you need help, look around for the specialist who can help!

The chosen expert at any rate will have more information than you do.

Lastly, the higher crew is my all-time expert whom I consult daily.

So I ask them to guide me to the right path for my life concerns and they bang on send me tons of signs and right people who will miraculously co-create my intended reality.

My higher crew and your higher crew are waiting to consult you. Get to them. Ask for help. Look for signs that come and manifest the best.

Have a super creative and efficient week, all of you who connect!

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Suicide ~ A Decision…Not A Phenomenon…

Suicide existed when there weren’t any psychological definitions attached to them. Suicides exist Today with all the Modern Jargon in place and long lists of things that can be done to prevent it…What  “Others” around the person may do…

Truth be told…harsh…raw…in the Face…hurtful…

IT IS A DECISION…FULLSTOP !!!

It is a decision a person has taken once what came out of “Pandora’s Box” have left them.

HOPE…Hope that guaranteed Pandora that she will never Desert mankind and yet she does take a break on and off…and those souls she deserts are the ones who decide to call it quits. These are the  ones who face a shutters down …they have tried all the Avenues…cried for help..asked for help...begged for help…thrown few tantrums…threatened dire consequences…screamed and kicked figuratively if not literally…hoped things will change and have arrived to this clear concise decision of “Ending it all”!

Often people feel it was “Heat of the moment” a rash move…a hasty act. It is not…

When they do decide to quit…they plan…they plan silently for the opportune time when they will be not disturbed…they take pains to get through the fool proof method…an irreparable…irreversible one. Its fatal in its finality. They seek no more attention…no more mercy…no more amends…its Exit they seek…Final…resounding and forever.

So its amusing when a case of suicide that catches Media attention makes the round…suddenly there is a plethora of advice that piles up in form of professional opinion to popular opinion. People talk avidly about how “Depression” as a Mental disease is receiving so little recognition…how it is a selfish Act…[ they did not care about their parents you see…}they stopped caring about self, long back…past caring about anyone. Popular notion thinks that if we were to sit patiently and talk about their woes …maybe...maybe we can bring them back from neverland…

Pure fallacy…It will not…the ones who have decided to get those veils out and cross over…absolutely will. They have decided…simple and silent…

The only one who can change this decision is their own self…if ever at all…that responsibility is only and only and only their own!!!

Why do I pass such a heavy statement??? For I have been in that Moment and know something. It was my choice to get there…AND my choice to walk back…No one knew until much much later I mustered courage enough to even confess…some scoffed at it as a lie…some pitied me…some found it as attention grabbing…but that Moment Was mine to hold on…and it was my decision to let it go and rebuild…LIFE!!!

Why then I wish to pen this!?

For I wish to point out a simple thing that it is the person’s Responsibility and no one else’s…

So many articles I read on signs of suicide…things you can do to avoid a “ potential suicide” if ever it can be done!!!

If all this works then why do we still have people jumping off the terraces...hanging onto “Fans”, going under a running Train, overdose of lethal drugs??? Why are we not able to stop them? We care…if we knew we would not let them. World is a nice place to be…People care for you. 

Things change…situations look up…phases move out…well…Do you think the person bent on Self Destruction Cares anymore…he or she knows all this and in spite of it has stopped feeling…for them it is Pack up time...Time to Go…

Others stop feeling responsible …the process had begun long back and very little could have been done. Recognize it within yourself when it occurs and see if it rings a bell towards a tendency.

Fortunately we all are born with a love for our own life. We will let go of it very very rarely and hang on to it for dear life. Be alert and explore within when we are going off the tangent and cut cool.

Seeking help where you shall ruminate again about how miserable your life is and some benevolent soul who nods sympathetically does not help…Take charge and Keep your life.

Stop playing Games with yourself…do we??? Play games??? Yes we do…how???

Look at an average Teenagers there are special ones... but for now let us focus on a technical average teenager who gets pocket money…goes to college…bunks lectures…uses the pocket money on sandwiches and movies and laments about their overstrict moms and dads…

They are so overbearing!!! They do not buy me this expensive….{maybe they really do not have the money to spare??}

They forced me to join this ….{ do they like bind your wrists and ankles on an auto and throw you in the college daily??}

They do not let me stay out for parties…hang out with my friends…{the one who uses screw you and  f### so frequently in their presence…has hair colour issues..like you seems to be going nowhere}

They are never happy with my marks …{ 60%+ with A.T.K.T galore]

Take this gym generation to professionals…so quick are they to blame the poor parents for stressing them…

Why do we not tell them…?

Dude!!! They still fund your teenage from food to studies and all the exorbitant demands in between…and still tolerate your switched off cell phones they spend a fortune in buying…if they do not agree on your choice of friends why not give them a benefit of doubt?? If the pocket money is less…why not get out of the education system you anyway hate and begin earning a decent salary. Your salary…your expense now would that be not cool??? Try it…

Do we tell the young gen to be self sufficient? We fear…kahii esa vesa na kar bethe…hmmmm

That brings us to the phase…To be or Not to be of suicide point…

Yes this is the phase when maximum attention is sought. Often mild attempts are made to scream out for help. Its not an Act but a cry for help…

or look closely an attempt to get what you want. 

How it will be dealt will develop the persona…lay more games further to hold people at ransom…or accept responsibility and learn and live…No manuals are available yet to actually give you a straight and run formula...but the people who stay in this phase are the ones who learn appeal to pity as the most manipulative device in relationships.

There is a Fatal phase where the so called issues are challenging…enough to run away…for some…

Less marks in public exams or Failure…

Inability to cope with a curriculum…

Abusive relationships…

Financial pressures…

Terminal illness and the painful tryst with invasive procedures without 

knowing the outcome and the resultant turmoil of drain on the family…yes it is a situation where Hope leaves one faster than slower...

Lately the Farmer’s suicide has also been catching the attention of the media and social organisations. The financial crisis envelops them so deeply that there seems to be no way out…however publicizing such events too seem to add to the available options to farmers undergoing financial quandary. Government of course is slow to wake up but other families and despairing souls move in and accept as a viable Exit option and so they Decide to implement it…

All the mentioned above situations have been faced and surmounted by many…so many have scored less and have lived to laugh at their academic state years later…for they looked at another aspects of themselves that were special to their own selves...

Inability to cope with a curriculum…its not the curriculum...it's you…you who cannot stand up and say “Hello…I cannot…I do not like it anymore…I want to give up and try something else!” We fear the parental guilt laden dialogue so very pedantic that we prefer to lay down our lives rather than face it…for the focus is still outside…

Understand this…

It is you at stake…your inner and outer happiness ,claim it…live it…if you can turn this bend you will mend things later…

Financial pressures…again look within…you have made some foolish decisions…you blundered…you messed up…no one else’s fault. If public defamation is what you expect…face it…it will pass..but life once laid down shall never come back to pass…Rebuild again is a chance you will get...How worse can it get??? Scandal??? Bankruptcy??? Arrest??? Property auction??? Your resource is you and you alone…rest all you can build…you can rebuild.

Abusive relationship is the most intimidating no escape route. So many tangles and the weakness is again…You!!!

What stops you on calling it quits with this person??? Is there a need for something social need for approval???A façade you maintain for prestige???Economic dependency for children??? Why would you tolerate kicks…name calling…insults…betrayal??? Do you not deserve better???Who is keeping you stagnant??? What devices are at play??? Ask relentlessly why??? 

If you are honest you  will know the reason why and find hopefully a way out for yourself…find out the drama strings at play here…we all love dramas…we love to cook up screaming matches…hysterical slapping sprees followed by profuse apologies and promises to not repeat...only to play out the drama yet again …that is where you begin seriously to toy with the idea of calling it quits…mentally building up scenarios of hanging yourself or seeing your adversaries sorry faces on your funeral...

STOP RIGHT THERE…YOU ARE PLAYING A DANGEROUS GAME...

You are somewhere giving yourself the right to die at the expense of struggling with the external issues and growing out of it and becoming Master of your destiny…if you will not…you will someday consider it as an option in your repertoire of options to bail yourself out in a singular “HOPE DOWN” moment….Do not enter this Mental romance with death Phase…it takes you straight to the terrace or ceiling Fan or sleeping pills…

It all boils down to a moment…a vacuum when It all feels just too much…and the best way to cope is…not to cope…all cries have been made…all tries have been made…all options considered and all outcomes weighed…and “making oneself absent” becomes a very attractive one…

So when this one person who was given the  gift of life did not take the responsibility to make it right for whatever reasons…what happens..

BLAME AND GUILT…

The person who left is beyond caring and so left…but the ones who remain…are filled with guilt and remorse…rewinding in a futile attempt to change something..anything…to have the person back…maybe talked a little more…maybe stayed with them…Survivor’s Guilt is what is so often neglected under the screaming Blame and burdensome guilt…The surviving relations would always be haunted with this death and the role they played or did not play in this gory situation.

Okay so we have a Law in place that says: suicide is punishable…the ones who left...do they care??? The ones who failed…well…would plead for mercy and often get it!!!

An attempt to taking one’s own life and succeeding is Suicide…A decision one makes…out of shame…hopelessness…despair...A moment when all is over…and yet it is not…It is over if we think it is and over if we  think it is…we survive if we wished to…harshest of circumstances…have been overcome…history is replete with such brave heart accounts…

Is there a Remedy to curtail this Decision?

Cut dramas as a way of responding to life…calmer approaches bring better results…sense of humor heals faster than tons of tears. Fill your life with busier activities that…the terraces seems far away…and tying a Noose around ceiling fan seems cumbersome…

Raise a Generation that lives in reality, assesses life rationally, admits to mistakes and feels they can be redressed. Let the psyche not have in their repertoire an action of this proportion in it.

The sun rises again…the day turns to night…people will be kind and cruel…situations will continue to be banal and relationships will continue to be oppressive…Yet there is a way out only if one thinks deeply and learns to accept responsibility for Self and its Action.

You failed…maybe the subject needs changing…your inclination changed…weigh it…change it to what you can cope…

Relationships…not getting enough attention…? Why run after someone why not create a Busy and meaningful life that people want to pursue you?? Out of love and respect.

Each one of us will take a call as to what shall we do when life confronts us with things not agreeable to us…people not willing to please…and all may come to a standstill…its we who need to stand tall…use all the reservoir of energy…God given energy to give that push to a force called Life…choose it…or else…

Well People…magazines…tabloids..media…would love to write about it and claim mileage…and Survivor’s shall shiver in the shadows of tragedy you leave behind for they will never figure out if anything they could have done to bring you back…

Nothing will…for you decided to Close the curtain…FULLSTOP.

                                                                                       
                                                                         Sonnal Pardiwala,

Internationally Certified Angel Card Reader.

Friday Angel Fix: Flirt!

Friday energy brings with it a relaxed whiff and kinda slow down vibes. You have worked the entire week dear ones and fulfilled most of your responsibilities. One responsibility you have towards yourself. That is to love yourself! Laugh and lighten your energy and collectively uplift the energy of all those who connect with you.

The message the Angels from Romance Angels Deck have for all of us is “FLIRT”.

Woww…apt and clear!

Angels do not mince words and messages. They tell you clear and concise what they want you to do. They want each one of us to have fun.

The card speaks to “Lovers” …flirt with each other. Fix a date and absolutely paint the town red. Cuddle and be cosy with a film and eat-in meal. Time to talk nonsense nothings and create a cosy weekend!

The ones who are technically unhooked…I am sure you have that special ones whose attention you covet…Coyly flash those eyes…send those meaningful smiles and light energy that makes them feel special.

The already married and into it couples…life has probably become too dull and mundane. Liven it up by singing your favorite song that you sung together…Give the other a simple surprise and smile that shows the other is loved and still desirable.

There are those who connect to my blog or live update who seem to be away from Lady Venus and is in no hurry to allow Cupid to send his arrows …well the card still tells you…Slow down…play with life with a little dose of sense of humor and well…lighten up. No harm in cracking few Jokes…being little funny and looking at life with little less serious glance.

All of you sending loads and loads of love, relax…lighten up…connect lovingly to others…view life a little less solemnly…you will have more energy for the coming week if you nurture the loving one within and around…!

Sonnal Pardiwala,

Internationally Certified Angel Card Reader.

Angel Fix Tuesday: AUTHOR

People have asked me what are Angel Card readings and it has been amusing to actually understand or make someone understand.

It is a way of life. It is your Angels and guardian Angels code of messages to you.

They are talking to us all the time and are ready to help. If only you would listen.

Cards are one of the specific ways you get clear messages. As you are guided daily you would know what it means so stay with me and know the love of angels. They will have fun and so should you.

For now every Tuesday and Friday we shall meet. Tuesday shall be devoted to life messages and Friday to Romance as we are shifting our energy to weekend Mood and Its time to cuddle and be cosy.

So today’s Card is “AUTHOR” from Life purpose Card Deck of Doreen Virtue. 

It essentially tugs at the writer within us to create. Words bring life to all our thoughts. So those of you who want to write a Book and have been stalling. Stop and Start Now. Write the ideas down without any judgements towards your own self like;

 “This is silly.”

“No one will like it.”

“I can never complete it.”

“I do not know how to go further.”

“Just go ahead and give yourself permission to additionally enjoy the process.”

Another meaning is if you already have a book written but have not dared to submit it to a publisher, it’s time to take charge and find avenues to get it published through self-publishing mediums. Your Angels are telling you to take that leap and absolutely believe in your Creative Self.

If you wish to give a message to anyone over a social media network Your Angels urge you to do it without hesitation. If it is a text or Even if you urge to do microblogging, go ahead. The written word is always powerful; CONNECT AND ENJOY.

Shed the inhibitions and simply; go for it!!!

If you are a Creative in any field the general message is to Not hold back but create and express, trusting that Angels shall open Avenues for you the moment you give inner permission…

Have a creative Day. May Angels fix everything you wish to fix…

Sonnal Pardiwala,

Internationally Certified Angel Card Reader.